THAT conversation

Sometimes you wonder when you write something or say something who reads it, or who hears it. Does someone take it the wrong way and run with it in the wrong direction? Do your words end up starting a war when really you were just venting some frustration that deep down inside you would burst if you didn't get it out in one way or another? Then you find out, in one way or another... that a morsal, maybe a crumb got through. Maybe not to everyone, maybe to only a few, maybe not to even the right person. That person may never see or hear your words (that may be a good thing too!) But it is good to know sometimes that when you do find ways to express yourself and someone does take the time to digest it, understand it, and then think about it... they can understand the difference between attack and personal feelings. Its funny how many times people will fight because they are right... and never think that so is the other person (in their mind). We all get to have that moment when we make a choice, that choice where we say to ourselves- "is this really worth it?" In some cases it is, but most of the time, it really isn't... THAT conversation came from someone to this day I hold in the highest regard. I miss him so much, it hurts sometimes. He was right most of the time and yet he hardly ever really argued... funny... wish I could have just one more conversation!

Clear Lake, Big Rapids MI